I’m going to buy a succulent after my doctor’s appointment at 11.30.
How can people justify their hate of a person based solely on whether or not they’re male/female/black/white/fat/skinny/etc I just
I need more blogs to follow who appreciate fine robot booty
ok I’m going to sleep you can tell I’m getting tired.
MAKE LOVE TO ME
I like how most of my “good” friends haven’t messaged me in like three days
thanks guys I feel really appreciated
I love how no one asks me to play games with them, I’m always the one who has to ask
whatever, I’m just gonna sleep all day tomorrow
no one fucking cares anyway
This is “How not to make someone feel better”, an alternative title being “How to make your friend’s problems seem like nothing”, or “How to make your friends feel worse”.
When I say something like “I hate my art”, how to not make me feel better is to say something like “I can’t even draw, you’re lucky” or “There are plenty of people who would pay to have your talent, I can’t draw for shit”.
When I say something like “I’m worthless and can’t do anything right”, how to make me not feel better is to something like “You have talent, that’s something I don’t have!”
These are just a few examples of how some of you have been invalidating my feelings and replacing them with your own. If you’re not going to help, please just say so.
When I’m feeling bad, the best thing you can do as a friend is to just be positive! Don’t tell me how “worthless” you think you are, or how jealous you are of my (lame) skills. It doesn’t help at all!!! The best thing to do is just to give me positive reinforcement.
I’ll try my best to do it for you as well, but sometimes when I’m having a bad day I might just say simple things like “I’m sorry you feel that way” or something. I generally see myself as being a horrible friend so it’s probably best you don’t try to talk to me much at all because I’m a jerk and a pessimist and I’ll probably just make you feel like shit!! I’m trying to fix this but I have to fix myself first. :c I’m sorry for being a bad friend and I hope you can forgive me if I ever do make you feel bad.