- Making rape jokes. Examples: ‘rape is just a struggle snuggle’ or ‘it’s not rape if you say surprise first’ or ‘if you rape a prostitute, is it rape or shoplifting’ or ANY OTHER RAPE JOKE.
- Calling situations that are nothing like rape rape. Examples: ‘that math test totally raped my ass’ or ‘the IRS really raped me this year’ or ‘i would absolutely rape something to eat right now’.
- Questioning survivors. Examples: ‘are you sure you didn’t just change your mind in the morning?’ or ‘I don’t think it’s rape if he’s your boyfriend’ or ‘are you just saying that so you won’t be called a slut?’
- Talking about rape as a positive. Example: ‘I would love to get raped by a hot girl’ or ‘I wish [insert attractive female celebrity here] would rape me’,
- Pantomiming rape. For some reason, the guys at my school think it is the absolute height of humor to sneak up on each other and simulate humping one another while yelling ‘rape!’. PRO TIP: It isn’t funny at all and it makes you look like a complete and total asshole.
- Calling all physical contact rape. I don’t know how many times I’ve seen (usually, but not always) guys at my school engage in minor physical contact like accidentally bumping someone in the hallway or seen two of them wrestling, and one or both will start laughing and screaming “RAPE! RAPE! HE’S RAPING ME!”
This is obviously a very incomplete list, so please feel free to add your own.
PS- If you do any of this stuff, you are an asshole and you need to stop right now
THIS.
I have never thought about it in this context
that’s actually really, really creepy.
I… fuck.
Yeah, basically.
I once pointed this out to my mother and she just stared at me, in stunned silence for ages.
Men, are you worried for your own safety because misandry?
You need to accept that misandry happens in the real world and take some precautions.
Take a self defense class, they’re only a couple hundred dollars a month.
Don’t go out after dark unless you have a woman to chaperone you. Misandrists are less likely to attack if they see you are with another woman.
Don’t wear anything too douchey. If you’re wearing a fedora or a sexist t-shirt, etc. you’re pretty much asking to get attacked. Misandrists can’t control themselves when they see a man in a fedora, their instincts kick in and before they know it they have a dead male corpse in their hands. Just be a good boy and don’t tempt them, okay?
Don’t ever invite a woman into your home. Misandrists will interpret this as you consenting to physical violence.
Drinking increases your risk of being attacked by a misandrist. They target drunk men because their inhibitions are lowered.
Never leave your drink unattended. Misandrists are notorious for poisoning men at parties and bars.
If a misandrist does attack you, be quiet and just let her finish or you might anger her further and you are liable to get murdered instead of just mutilated. But also, be sure to put up a good fight because a lot of men say they don’t want to be attacked by misandrists but deep down, they really like it.
And remember, accusing a woman of abusive misandry is worse than being abused by a misandrist. So before you make accusations, make sure it wasn’t all just a silly misunderstanding.
The swinging pendulum of sexism arrives! Ladies, Men can get raped too. Remember that.
Just to put some perspective in this for those people who may be confused at how a guy can get a boner but not really be sexually charged, so to speak…
Ladies, you know how your nipples get hard for seemingly no reason (sans stepping into a cold room anyway)? You go to put on a shirt and your nipples are poking out like they haven’t seen daylight in over 40 years? Or you brush them up against something and BAMMO, nipple town? Or someone slaps you in the tits and they’re standing full mister?You get where I’m going with this? Your sexual organs are built to respond to stimulus, be it one you personally find sexually gratifying or not. Saying a dude who gets a boner while he’s otherwise not consenting to sex is lying about the fact would be like saying any girl who gets wet while getting raped is actually enjoying it/wants it.
so… you know… dont be stupid about this people. guys can get raped too and girls can most definitely be the fuckin perps.
People who think men don’t get raped are just as bad as the people who think men can’t control their urges to rape women. It happens less often, but it still happens, and it’s just as traumatizing for the male victim. You can’t just disregard a victim based on their gender.
Can we also include that females can rape other females and males can rape other males too?
Every.Single.Person.Can.Be.A.Victim.Or.An.OffenderBLESS
THIS
FUCKING
POST
FINALLY. I saw the Don’t Be That Guy posts the other day and I was like ok but how’s about Don’t Be That Girl posts too? Now it’s here.
OK SERIOUSLY
- RAPE ISNT FUNNY
- THE END
- FUCK YOU
- GO HOME
JESUS CHRIST THATS NOT SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND IS IT
- DOESNT MATTER IF ITS ‘JUST A JOKE LOL’
- NO STOP THAT
- SHUT
- UP
AND HERES A LITTLE EXTRA BONUS FUCKERS
- NOBODY DESERVES SUICIDE
- NOBODY DESERVES TO BE BULLIED
- REGARDLESS OF ANYTHING
- I DONT CARE IF THEYRE THE BIGGEST SLUT THAT HAS EVERY STD AND HAS FUCKED TEN MILLION PEOPLE
So, I reblogged that Retsupurae video showing people reacting to PewDiePie’s awful videos. I decided to check the comment section.
Never liked him, never will. What an asshole.
I wish I was making this shit up. I really do. I wish that this was not real, that I was reading The Onion. But I’m not. This is real. My faith in humanity lies dead at the bottom of the deepest ocean. I can’t. I just can’t.
”If God has chosen to bless this person [the rape victim] with a life, you don’t kill it.”
Excuse me while I beat myself over the head to forget everything I’ve read.
“Rep. Todd Akin, your comments about survivors of rape are shocking and offensive. Anyone who doesn’t understand basic biology and wants to create more barriers for rape survivors seeking justice does not belong in the United States Congress. You must resign right away.” ~ Kat Barr
you wanna know what’s so nice about BDSM, master/slave, dom/sub and those sort of dynamics as well as the lifestyle itself?
there is the opportunity to explore every single kind of kink or fetish you’d like. anything at all.
and ALL of them, even rape fantasies or knife play or kidnapping or degradation ALL involve CONSENT between the parties. CONSENT is what makes the entire difference. there is nothing enjoyable about actual rape - but playing it out in an environment in which anyone involved has an agreement arranged beforehand is what makes that sort of thing an appropriate way to express that type of fantasy.
there are so many ways to write through power struggles, degrading and breaking down one person until they reach their sub-space.
but when you take away the CONSENT aspect of it is when it becomes a problem.
FINALLY A GOOD POST
I’m real tired of this rape culture all over my dashboard. ESPECIALLY WHEN PEOPLE DON’T TAG THEIR SHIT.
“i found it amazing that he actually wanted to go that far and break this boring goody two-shoes norm we have going on here.”
BECAUSE CONSENSUAL SEX IS TOTALLY MUNDANE, RIGHT?Someone get me off Tumblr before I hang myself.
*nods* i feel for those people who actually have been raped and i just… i would not wish them to revisit that memory simply because someone carelessly wrote a fanfic about it in a crass manner instead of taking a bit of time to work through it and make it less shocking and more an actual attempt at writing.
i did not read the fic myself but the reaction from everyone is telling enough.
i actually just said this to my darling a few minutes ago in reference to this topic rippling through tumblr right now:
“having an underlying tone of consent does not at all lessen the power struggle between the two”
and that was my actual intention of bringing up bdsm, m/s stuff in the first place… because in there you can find many, many an outlet without it offending anyone or sending them into a dark, hurtful place that they probably revisit enough on their own.
some things really need people to stop for a moment and consider… “should i really say this or is there another way i can get my point across without lessening the eroticism i am intending?”
Can I just say that you really just made my day? I was really only expecting more dumb replies to this, but holy shit you are just the best person.
cries tears of joy
((first i hear mikky left [partially], then i hear she’s considering coming back despite her life away from the computer has some shit it wants mikky to deal with, now i hear jericho-swain wrote a rapefic and, due to reactions, has quit.))
((and you guys want them back.))
…
((Okay, I’ll give you that. It would have shock value.))
((Thing is you can give shock value to -anything- without resorting to that.))
((Not a single thing i have read on Tumblr has ever been shocking to me, and what do you mean “resorting to that” resorting to what, rape? its a fanfic who gives a flying f-sorry going to try and be mature about this. Rape is a touchy subject yeah sure but that is what makes it so great, its one of the most degrading and horrible things that could happen to a person and i found it amazing that he actually wanted to go that far and break this boring goody two-shoes norm we have going on here.))
((Who cares about the norm?))
you wanna know what’s so nice about BDSM, master/slave, dom/sub and those sort of dynamics as well as the lifestyle itself?
there is the opportunity to explore every single kind of kink or fetish you’d like. anything at all.
and ALL of them, even rape fantasies or knife play or kidnapping or degradation ALL involve CONSENT between the parties. CONSENT is what makes the entire difference. there is nothing enjoyable about actual rape - but playing it out in an environment in which anyone involved has an agreement arranged beforehand is what makes that sort of thing an appropriate way to express that type of fantasy.
there are so many ways to write through power struggles, degrading and breaking down one person until they reach their sub-space.
but when you take away the CONSENT aspect of it is when it becomes a problem.
FINALLY A GOOD POST
I’m real tired of this rape culture all over my dashboard. ESPECIALLY WHEN PEOPLE DON’T TAG THEIR SHIT.
“i found it amazing that he actually wanted to go that far and break this boring goody two-shoes norm we have going on here.”
BECAUSE CONSENSUAL SEX IS TOTALLY MUNDANE, RIGHT?
Someone get me off Tumblr before I hang myself.
